https://www.estherperel.com/blog/letters-from-esther-30-appreciating-otherness-in-relationships

I really enjoyed this article from my relationship idol Esther Perel as I am aware how easily desire can be lost in long-term relationships.  When we know someone so well, it's difficult to find the stranger, which was part of the desire and attraction at the beginning. There is a lovely exercise at the end of the article to practice with your partner and encourage that desire again....